I Am Not An Animal!

The story begins with Maurice going to the bank to make a deposit. He and a teller he knew were talking about me, how I’m doing and my medications. The teller who was helping him sympathetically asked what was wrong with me and he simply told her I’m bipolar. Her reaction was shock and terror as she gasped and exclaimed, “Oh my God, isn’t that like schizophrenic?”

Oh silly, silly woman. No, bipolar is not like schizophrenia. Schizophrenics have more psychotic episodes and are much harder to treat. Yes, silly woman, bipolar is like schizophrenia since they are both mental illnesses that people do not understand.

My only experience with schizophrenia is when I was in the psychiatric ward. The hospital put me in the schizophrenic wing due to lack of beds elsewhere and forgot about me. Oh, I’m use to it. People try very hard to forget about me as best they can. During my two days there my roommate spent every night ripping our room apart trying to find the voices that were too real for him to ignore, even though he told me he knew they weren’t. Here’s the amazing thing – he was a nice guy. I shared a small room with him for two nights, I spent two days on a floor full of “these people” and attended group discussions with them and yet, despite it all, I did not catch it.

I try not to judge her reaction, afterall, that’s what this blog is about – dispelling ignorance and educating from my perpective and experiences. People with schizophrenia can, and frequently do, suffer from a mood disorder. However, those with mood disorders are rarely schizophrenic.

Remember the Elephant Man when he exclaimed “I am not an animal!”, well, I’ve been called one many times (usually in the bedroom), but I am not one. Sure, I’ll take some empathy. Hell, I’ll take almost anything to get attention, but I’d prefer not to get pity. Even more, I’d prefer not to get fear. I just am a guy with a disorder like someone in a wheelchair, a speech impediment, has diabetes, or has lost an arm. Maurice doesn’t wear a mask and rubber gloves when around me, unless….oh, nevermind. The only thing infectious about me is my charming personality.

On the serious side. Schizophrenic’s do not have multi personalities. That is called dissociative personality disorder. To learn more about schizophrenia or bipolar, the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), is an excellent sight. Check it out.

  6 comments for “I Am Not An Animal!

  1. July 19, 2008 at 17:32

    Imagine the delight on my 20 yr old’s face at the zoo and last week at the sea aquarium. Those were good days, because the voices were not taking hold in her mind, and she wasn’t being tortured. Some days she wears a headset that helps. Most of all she is the most dearest young woman anyone would want to know. She’s most often described as “endearing” by people who meet her. I wish the bank teller could have.

  2. Shiv
    July 18, 2008 at 21:39

    Another example of why we work so hard to bring mental health issues out of the dark closet and into the light of day for all to see. I think her shocked reaction to what she perceived as “like schizophrenia” says more than her lack of ability to distinguish between illnesses.From my experience there was a slight similarity between bipolar and schizophrenia: mood cycling. My mother suffered mood cycles that would make most bipolar sufferers dizzy! Sometimes she could go from inconsolable fits of tears to hysterical laughter and back again in the space of ten minutes. I think that was more to do with whatever was happening in the world in her head tho.Maybe you should take some wikipedia prints next time you go to the bank :p

  3. July 16, 2008 at 04:33

    eff those bank tellers. Loved the catch phrase though..

  4. July 15, 2008 at 13:17

    my friend is schizo and people have so many misunderstandings of her, its a shamehttp://www.queersunited.blogspot.com

  5. la
    July 15, 2008 at 04:50

    Gee, you guys are friendly with your bank tellers! I get annoyed when the ones at my bank call me by my first name (it usually means they’re trying to sell me a credit card.)But good to know you’re only an animal where it counts 😉

  6. July 14, 2008 at 20:18

    How frustrating. I just want to scream when I hear stories like that, but I understand. Oh, the term is Dissociative Identity Disorder with the previous diagnosis Multiple Personality Disorder. Yes, it is different from schizophrenia. You can have a mood disorder with it. Or you can have a mood disorder with psychotic features. Psychosis is a symptom of schizophrenia. Just this last week, I wanted to yell, “I’m just a human being.” I guess that is the same as “I’m not an animal!” Nice to know you are in some areas…but I don’t want anymore details!!! 🙂 Unless, I get to write a book and make lots of money. Then, I’m all ears.

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