Some of my Heroes – Throwback

Little girl dressed as a superhero wearing a mask and a cape

This week’s Throwback is from May 2013

In February, Carrie Fisher, of Star Wars fame, acted erratically while performing on stage during a cruise, which included her belting out songs off key, and having to clean up after her dogs who pooped on stage. Carrie was not drunk as some believed. She had to see her doctor and have her meds adjusted. Carrie has been up front and honest about living with bipolar disorder and even wrote a couple of books about it.

Carrie Fisher is one of my heroes.

A few weeks ago, Catherine Zeta-Jones checked herself into a health care facility to better manage her medication for her bipolar disorder. Catherine has been open about having bipolar disorder, hoping it would diminish the stigma associated with it.

Catherine Zeta-Jones is one of my heroes.

In 2004 Jane Pauley released an autobiography, in which, she openly discusses being diagnosed with bipolar.

Jane Pauley is one of my heroes.

Other heroes I admire are Jean-Claude Van Damme, Linda Hamilton, Sinéad O’Connor, Mariette Hartley, Sting, Patty Duke, and more.

None of these individuals are my heroes because they are celebrities. None of them are my heroes because they are celebrities who have bipolar disorder. I consider these folks heroes because they are celebrities, who have bipolar disorder, and have been open and honest publically about it. Coming out of the mental illness closet can be a huge inspiration for many out there living with bipolar disorder. It also comes with a huge variety of risks. Each of the individuals above took that risk in industries that are all about the publics perception.

Coming out of the closet as a gay man was extremely difficult. I knew it was going to change my life forever, either good or bad. The same thing can be said regarding my coming out as being diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Mental illness is a scary thing. It’s scary for the individual with the disorder, and it’s scary for the general public, most of whom have no idea what it is like living with bipolar, chronic depression, schizophrenia, etc.

My entire purpose for starting this blog 5 years ago [Now 8 years] was to educate and to let others know they are not alone. In most respects I believe I have been successful. I continue this blog with those same goals today. I look at the names above and am happy I don’t stand alone with that goal.

  9 comments for “Some of my Heroes – Throwback

  1. September 23, 2016 at 16:05

    I’m equally inspired by celebrities, and day to day people, who come out of the “mental health closet” and are open about it. You’re right, it comes with a variety of risks. I’m finding that I need to be open about it in my life for my own reasons, but it comes with consequences. People don’t quite know what to do with it unless they’ve dealt with it before. I’ve been inspired by Sarah Silverman, who’s talked about her experience with depression.

    • Bradley
      September 23, 2016 at 16:14

      I didn’t know that about Sarah. I’ll have to look into it. I know it’s stereotypical to think of comedians having depression or some other disorder, but I think it’s a stereotype for a reason.

  2. September 23, 2016 at 10:56

    Wearing a mask is exhausting. And the freedom to live without masks is freedom indeed. 🙂

    • September 23, 2016 at 15:55

      It is exhausting to wear a mask and I did it for decades. Oh hell, I still wear it from time to time, but most of the time it’s the real me and there is a lot of freedom with that.

      • September 23, 2016 at 19:50

        Wearing masks is a habit that can be hard to break. They can protect you. The only time that I’m 100% me is when I’m alone. Which is one of the reasons that I enjoy being alone. 🙂

  3. Bradley
    September 22, 2016 at 15:03

    I did a quick check. As I said, the “Like” button pops right up here for me. I’m at the library and checked it on their computer and it just keeps saying “Loading.” The team that developed the button are all out of the office until the 26th. Hopefully the problem will correct itself before then.

  4. September 22, 2016 at 13:00

    It’s not letting me like this… though I want to! It takes courage to be open about who we are. So glad for your blog and openness – it’s been an inspiration to me.

    • Bradley
      September 22, 2016 at 13:22

      Arrrrgh! The non-working “Like” button again. Naturally it shows for me clear as day, but everyone else it shows it’s “thinking” or something like that. I’ve been wondering why no one has clicked “Like” all day. (sigh)

      I’ll have to figure out what to do. WordPress won’t help me because I self host.

      • September 22, 2016 at 13:26

        Yeah, it’s strange.. “loading.” WordPress has been coming up with these auto-download things for 10MB worth of a program. Strange things happening!

No Comments Make Me Sad

%d bloggers like this: